Your Guide to Strength Training for Women

It used to be that the weight room of most gyms was filled solely with men (and the occasional brave female). But recently, women have begun to skew that ratio more in their favor. And with good reason! There are so many great reasons to add strength training to your fitness routine, regardless of your gender, but specifically for women.

But if you're a little unsure of where to start, here's a beginners guide to strength training for women, so you can strut into the weight room with confidence.

While there are a host of benefits of strength training for both men and women, strength training is especially beneficial for women.

1. Improving Bone Health: Strength training is one of your best strategies for keeping your bones healthy as you age, according to a 2009 review in Clinical Cases in Mineral and Bone Metabolism.

"Simply the pushing and pulling of the muscles against your skeleton stimulates osteoblast activity, which are the cells of the bone that create bone growth," says Holly Perkins, CSCS, author of Lift to Get Lean.

For women, shoring up bone strength is especially important. In fact, approximately 80 percent of the estimated 10 million Americans currently living with osteoporosis are women, and roughly half the women over the age of 50 will break a bone because of osteoporosis, according to the National Osteoporosis Foundation.

2. Maintaining Muscle Mass: Women start to lose muscle mass around the age of 40. If you don't do something about it, you'll keep losing muscle every decade until roughly 50 percent is gone by your 80th birthday, says a 2014 review published in Current Opinion in Rheumatology. The review also cites loss of muscle as one of the major reasons people lose independence as they age.

3. Burning More Calories: If it's too soon to think about that, you might be interested to know that adding muscle to your frame can help you burn more fat over time (provided you follow a healthy diet as well). "The more muscle mass you have, the more calories you burn throughout the day," says Jennifer Cohen, author of Strong Is the New Skinny.

Just how many more calories? A 2010 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition reveals that one pound of muscle burns roughly six calories per day, whereas one pound of fat burns only two. This difference may appear minor, but every little bit adds up.

"What strength training does is it helps you beef up the amount of muscle you have on your body, and then that muscle will help burn off the body fat," Perkins says. (Just keep in mind that no amount of muscle will compensate for a poor diet.)

4. Boosting Confidence: But the benefits of strength training don't stop with the physical: "We've found that [strength training] is a really fantastic way to build confidence," says Jen Comas, NASM personal trainer and co-founder of Girls Gone Strong.

"When we can get women focused on strength training, it gives them a better feel for what else they're able to accomplish in their life." In other words: Strength in the gym often translates into strength outside of the gym as well.

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Now, if you're worried that strength training will make you "bulky" or "manly," know that women in general lack the hormone levels needed to pack on muscle. "I've yet to see any woman become an Arnold Schwarzenegger by lifting weights," Cohen says.

That said, the definition of "bulky" will be different from one woman to another and lifting weights will build muscle. Just how much muscle and where you'll see it the most depends on your routine and genetics. If you're genuinely worried about adding muscle, start with whatever weight you feel comfortable with and increase from there.

"We really let the client guide themselves with that and try to be respectful of their concerns," Comas says, "rather than our old way, which used to be to dismiss them and try to rush someone into lifting heavy."

Starting a new routine or activity can be exciting — and confusing. "Often times we see women who are really excited, they want to get started, but they get to the gym and they have no idea what to do," Comas says. "They find themselves just kind of wandering around, which is not a good headspace to be in."

The best way to avoid aimless wandering is to get your hands on a strength training program or work one-on-one with a certified personal trainer. Start by asking for recommendations from friends, family and colleagues, and go from there.

If you're not ready for a full-fledged program just yet, start by incorporating five to 10 minutes of strength training into your routine once or twice a week, Cohen says. You could try push-ups (on your knees or incline is just fine), body-weight squats, lunges and anything else you can think of (just make sure you look up or ask about proper form before trying anything completely new).

"If you get intimidated or overwhelmed, just do something to begin your journey," Perkins says. "Over time, you'll learn ways to do it better."

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In general, women are capable of following any training program designed for men (and vice versa), and according to Comas, any good exercise program will include exercises that cover the basic movement patterns:

• Squat
• Lunge
• Hinge (ex. deadlift)
• Upper-body pull (ex. bent-over row)
• Upper-body push (ex. push-up)
• Twist (ex. cable cross-overs)
• Carry (ex. Farmer's carry)

That said, it can be helpful for women to place extra focus on their posterior chain, or the muscles that make-up the back of the body (i.e. glutes, hamstrings, lats). "[Women] tend to be wider at the hips, so to make sure we keep our bodies balanced and knees healthy, we want to do work for the glutes and hamstrings," Comas says. (Think: glute bridges, Romanian deadlifts and hamstring curls.)

Also, be sure not to neglect your upper-body. "Women tend to focus on their lower half," Cohen says. "In reality, if [women] focused on their upper-body more, they would look leaner, because the first thing your eye goes to is the shoulders, arms and neck."

In addition to the visual appeal of having a strong upper half, putting more attention into the back and shoulder muscles in particular will help counteract all the hours we spend sitting at a computer during the day.

"We're constantly hunched over and it's terrible for our posture and our spine," Cohen says. Exercises like overhead presses, lat pulldowns, lateral raises and pull-ups (modified is fine) are just a few great posture-strengthening exercises to look for in any program.

Read more: The Only 5 Exercises Women Need to Get Lean

It's not uncommon for women to feel intimidated when they enter the weight room for the first time. If this is you, you're not alone. "Most people don't really know what they're doing," Perkins says, "so that really levels the playing field." Still, there are ways to feel a little more comfortable when you do step out on the gym floor.

1. Go During Slower Times: Most gyms have a pre- and post-work rush, and can get pretty busy. If you can avoid the crowds, you might feel less intimidated, Comas says.

2. Wear Something Comfortable: Don't wear something just because you think it's what you're supposed to wear. After all, nothing is worse than trying to work out when you don't feel comfortable in your own clothes. And keep in mind that what feels comfortable will be different for every person. "Some people might feel their best in tights and a crop top, while other people might want to wear a hat and baggy sweats," Comas says.

3. Start With One Set of Weights: Another great tactic is to find a routine that only requires one set of weights to complete. This way, you can grab your dumbbells at the beginning of your workout and find a quiet corner to do your routine. "That's a good way to get acclimated to the environment without having to hunt for equipment," Comas notes.

4. Take Baby Steps: If you can't work up the courage to get to the gym in the first place, take baby steps. One week, put on your workout clothes and do a workout at home. The next week, put on your workout clothes and drive to the gym — without going inside. Take it one step at a time and work up to that day when you finally go in and do your first workout. "It sounds so trivial, but it can be incredibly impactful," Comas says.

5. Find a Gym Buddy: If you can, recruit a friend to join you. "Everything is less scary if you've got a friend or some type of support system with you," Comas says.

Finally, know that you have every right to be in the weight room. If anyone ever makes you feel uncomfortable, or like you don't belong in that space, don't be afraid to talk to management, Comas says.